In our world today, the importance and strength of the family has been truly undermined. With divorce rates skyrocketing and the absence of fathers, the true picture of the God ordained family has been blurred. To start, we must first realize that it is God who sets solitary, individual peace in families (Ps. 68:6). The enemy has done a great job of robbing families of this promised tranquility by magnifying his standards over God’s. Too often, selfishness overrides the genuine love of Christ that should be evident in families. Spending valuable family time is pertinent in strengthening the bond of peace within a family. Doing things like having a movie or game night and taking a walk around the neighborhood are sample ways to set aside time to spend with family. We understand that schedules at times can be extremely pressing. Engaging in activities while riding in the car, like playing word games with children or simply reminiscing on past events between husband and wife through a guessing game can be effective. The time must first be valued. What happens if time spent with one another is left unvalued? There will be a void in all relationships within the family. Husbands and wives tend to become even more selfish, tending to put their aspirations before the individuals they should be investing in the most. This could in turn result in separatism, which leads to grounds for divorce. The children then are adversely affected, feeling unloved and left filled with guilt if divorce is the outcome. Selfishness now takes root in the children and their future relationships continue this cycle of brokenness. There is a balance in everything and the most effective ways to meet the needs of your family should be sought out in prayer. The bible is clear when it instructs us to leave no room for the enemy. Valuing family time is a sure result of taking our eyes off of ourselves and looking for ways to express love and care for others, especially those closes to us, our family.
By: Kevin and Deon Myers
